Leadership! Thanks for your comment and being honest and passionate yourself. I would see no point in getting married again if I divorced from my first husband. I wasn’t sold on marriage anyway to begin with. And yes it was when I decided I would like kids that I thought marriage would be a good idea. My daughter, now 5, loves to look at photos of our wedding (it was a very inexpensive informal one) and think it’s very special that we are maried when so many of her friends parents are not- I believe it is a sacred institution and my husband and I try and protect it. business plan The issues arise many times because his ex wife has a mental illness. I would hope my daughter doesn’t have anything to “see through”. I truly love my husband and him, me. Our life is mostly drama free except the one time a year when his ex starts things- not sure why, but it’s like clockwork. I think some don’t like seeing some happy. Marriage wasnt about a license more than a promise and my husband, being ex military loves institutions of honor, such as the military and marriage. It meant so much to him that I bent my attitude about marriage in favor of him.